11 responses to “Sharing Needles With Your Teenage Daughter|Botox Gone Mad”

  1. Sandy

    Oh
    My
    God
    It stuns me that people who think about using botox don’t think it through a little more: when you don’t use a muscle, it atrophies. That means, surely, that over time the muscle loses definition, so what will hold up the skin on the face? Not to mention the way that the muscles of the face actually influence the way our body’s chemistry works… quick fix gone mad :(

    1. Cherry Woodburn

      I know Sandy – what will their faces look like over time? Especially if a person starts using botox at age 15. Thank goodness there’s people like you helping people learn how to love their bodies as they are. Cherry

  2. jill leigh

    Now there’s something to aspire to – I wanna be the next Human Barbie! Oh yeah, bring it on.

    Ok, never mind. I’d actually rather be me – with all of my perfections and imperfections. I guess it’s true confessions time. I actually used to be upset because my nostrils weren’t the same size and shape. I’d look at them in the mirror and think – “How will anyone love me with this insane deformity?” You know something? No one (including all three of my husbands) have ever noticed!

    A colleague of mine who does Myofascial Release on women who have had Botox treatments to soften their faces, told me that the Botox eventually slips out of the face (or injection site), but it never breaks down and leaves the body. Now there’s a happy thought for all of the 15-year olds who are getting safe injections from their mothers and dermatologists.

    1. Sandy

      Jill, I didn’t know it didn’t ever leave the body – now that is scary!

    2. whatsaysyou

      Now this is even scarier, Botox stays in the body’s system and never breaks down like food and enzymes. This is one good reason I would never want to do the Big B.

  3. Elena

    Thank you for the great post, Cherry. This is so disturbing. Mothers should help their children build a positive self-image and not encourage cosmetic procedures! Besides the physical harm, the psychological effects of this will certainly be quite harmful.

    And speaking of physical effects: Botox is indeed a very dangerous substance and we have yet to know the long-term effects of its use. According to this article:

    “Researchers from the Italian National Research Council’s Institute of Neuroscience who injected botulinum toxin into the faces of rats found that it moved away from the site of the injection and could be detected just days later in brain stem cells. The poison was not only still present in the rats’ brains six months later, but was able to travel from one region of the brain to another.” (http://www.independent.co.uk/life-style/health-and-families/health-news/botox-the-brain-pain-805253.html)

    !!!

    1. whatsaysyou

      Wow, Elena, this is mind-opening but frightening information about how Botox may move into the brain after being in a living body’s system for quite some time. Oh my goodness gracious!

  4. Erin

    The whole thing is ridiculous. This girl doesn’t want to look “haggard” at 25??? Her mother needs to keep her issues to herself, but clearly it’s so beyond that at this point. I feel sorry for the daughter.

    This is why I’m trying so very hard not to pass on my own neuroses and low self-esteem to my daughters. They are only 4, but still so impressionable, and pick up on so many little things.

    This, however, takes the cake. I don’t know how this Barbie mom sleeps at night. And shame on the doctor(s) who keep operating on her, too.

    1. whatsaysyou

      Erin, you got an excellent point. Children are like sponges and they can learn anything from their parents, good and bad. You are not the only person feeling sorry for that girl, I too cannot help but wonder how on earth she can think that she will be haggard by the time she is 25. She should not be worrying about this and it is a pity, she is only going to grow up to be an unhappy woman who thinks that a little tweaking here and there would make her happier in order to attain the ‘ultimate’ look. But in the end, she will just remain dissatisfied all the time.

  5. Dawn Lennon

    Ditto…they are nuts! It’s a perversion. It’s one thing to use this stuff and it’s another to base it on the premise that “I don’t/won’t look good enough,” a corollary to “I’m not/never will be good enough.” And for whom? This isn’t done to attract a man (like in the old days!) but to look good for other women. Why? So they won’t bully you? Egad, this is just a mess and so many are making so much $ perpetuating it!

  6. whatsaysyou

    Dear Cherry,

    Your post about the use of Botox among adolescent girls caught my attention. As a young lady in my twenties, I cannot help but be shocked at how young this girl is doing this to herself. 15 is too young to have Botox and if I were the mother, I rather put my foot down, tell her a big no and endure the tantrums and wails than to bow down to her and give her what she wants. It is wrong and unnatural to have a 15-year-old girl with a ‘frozen’ face that can’t make any natural facial gestures.

    It is not just teenaged girls doing the Big B there are even ladies my age, ranging between 20 to 29, doing it too and it’s unnecessary. Why can’t these girls be happy with themselves than try putting those unnatural things inside their faces? Do they not realised that they may age badly in the future? As a young woman, I am determined to age gracefully by taking care of myself and never rely on the Big B or the knife because I rather if nature takes its course on me. Last but not least, thank you for your article.

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