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  2. Dawn Lennon

    A terrific post, Cherry, that pushes all the right buttons. It takes having been down and out to put unemployment, economic struggling, and the darkness of uncertainty into perspective. Those who believe that most of the unemployed don’t want to work don’t know much about the importance of dignity in our lives. ~Dawn

  3. Spiritual

    This article has many great points thank you. It also demonstrates your own bias and paradigms about the unemployed. The reality of ‘mass’ unemployment is a product of the paradigms of this nation to begin with, it has little to do with the government and will only ever be corrected by the effort of the individual.

    I grew up very poor, very poor. My family was victim minded and held lack consciousness. We were without principles of integrity or basic morals. However, no one in the family could have known that or admitted it. So I do know that people may not believe they are lazy, but their lack of discipline or their contempt for government or wealthy people create a mindset that manifests itself as lazy behavior.

    Today’s unemployed would rather receive a check for $290 a week, than work for $300 a week, despite the fact that working for $300 a week may begin to create new conditions in their life, in their heart and in their consciousness and begin contribute to and support a growing economy overall. My own small business employees 3 people, 2 full time and 1 part time. I do know that they are grateful for the work and I do know that I interviewed several for the job. Some had been looking for work a long time. My own family has had several pay raises in our other work and a growing business. While I do agree that the ‘unemployed’ are generalized as lazy, and there is much more to the truth than that, in truth many have become complacent. The payoff for a lower paying job does not equal the benefit of a monthly check.

    We all need each other. Our economy is only going to improve when we improve our approach, our attitude and our willingness to change how we do things.

  4. Spiritual Presence

    Thank you for the reply Cherry, I also appreciate the dialogue.

    My intent was not to offer any sweeping generalization in this case (I feel the same about them as you), I simply did not begin the sentence with ‘most’, or ‘the majority of’, 95% etc. Nor was the statement birthed from the behavior of the’unemployed’ per se, but rather an understanding of human behavior and value systems, regardless of the group.

    Few people are inner directed in my experience Cherry. Most people (the majority, 95% etc.), regardless of age, race, culture, country etc. are reactive versus proactive in a personal crisis situation such as a job loss. The longer the unemployment or external / environmental conditions remain the same, the easier it is to fall into a consciousness of complacency. This is a real threat that few (albeit well intentioned) people protect their minds from.

    I understand your article was intended to address those who believe that ‘If this happened to me, I would be a go-getter and a proactive job seeker and I could find work where others have failed’ etc. I do not dispute your wisdom, I simply want to contribute to a complete picture by adding another valid perspective. In my experience, few people are self motivated enough to reinvent their current paradigms to support the necessary change required to find work. “Work’ in their chosen field may no longer be available, or work that meets their own standard (even lowest standard) of hourly or monetary value or self-worth may not be available, but work itself is always available to those who relentlessly seek it. This is the mandate of Universal law. When faced with the opportunity receive a check for being unemployed, or to receive a check by working for far less than their own standards, few people have the integrity to work for less because it is too easy to justify their position.

    Many people, deep within their consciousness can justify being ‘paid’ by the ‘system’ for all they have contributed. After all, it is them that is the victim of external circumstance outside of their control, from own their point of view at least. For externally directed people, this is reality for them. Most people can validate their position of continuing to receive a check until ‘things get better’ out there or until ‘they’ fix the economy’ etc. I believe that even well intentioned people fall into this category. The small check may is not ideal by any stretch, but it is enough to contribute to a lack of motivation. I don’t believe people start out with that mentality, but over due course it can take its toll on even well-meaning people unless they protect their minds, become diligent enough, motivated enough, walk upright enough and contribute enough to their own solution through creative thinking and action. This is not intending to diminish those in need or those who are suffering right now, but unless we look at the whole picture, the equilibrated picture, all of us will be in this situation for a much longer than necessary time.

  5. Tim Sverduk

    I think that the word “paradigm” is the key. I understand that it means “world-view” or “belief-system.” In my opinion, what we call “laziness” may just be a disease of the belief-system. In this sense, some people are correct when they say that they deserve to be paid by the system, because the system has, indeed, given them the short end of the stick. But, I think that the way in which the system has victimized them is not the way in which they think the system has victimized them.

    Consider the concept of a “good work ethic.” We all know it when we see it, and we all know that people who have it are much more likely to succeed in life. So where does a good work ethic come from? It is a direct result of training from the family and community in which a child grows up. So, in that sense, I would agree that a person who did not receive good-work-ethic-training as a child does have a legitimate gripe against the system. Of course, though, once a person becomes an adult and can see the underlying issues for themselves, then there is a sense in which they must become at least partially responsible for their own work ethic. It is similar to the adult who suddenly realizes that he or she has been brainwashed as a child. Even though it is very difficult to reject the brain washing, it really becomse the responsibility of the adult to work on it.

    So back to the question about the unemployed and laziness. It is very difficult for another person to say if someone else is lazy or not, since it goes to the question of human will and deepest motivation. I am the only one who can peer into my own heart and mind. We can make inferences based on another person’s behavior, but only the person themselves can really know for sure what motivates them. In any case, for those people who, themselves, can admit to being lazy (I have personally met several of them), I think that a part of their spirit is crying out for help. Is it based on a sickness of the belief system? I think so.

  6. Tim Sverduk

    BTW, I guess my post was more geared toward the topic of “how to cure laziness” rather than to address the question that you originally raised of “are unemployed people lazy.” Sorry. :-p

    About the question of whether or not the unemployed are lazy, I would say: No, Yes and Somewhat. I think it really depends on the individual (14 million unemployed individuals) in question. In your case, Cherry, it sounds like you alluded to having directly observed laziness in someone else when you were a child. So, at least it sounds like you would agree that, for some people, it does sometimes happen that they are both unemployed and lazy. Of course, in many cases the unemployed are not lazy at all, and you are right to point out that a person who is being judgmental of another is quite often looking at things in a distorted way.

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