What Keeps You From Seeing Possibilities For Yourself?
This is the entrance to a world of possibilities. The colors of possibility are radiant within you when you believe in yourself. Life is brighter, more colorful when you feel confident about your choices. You notice life’s beauty when you’re not focused on your own pain, or shame or guilt. Joy is not illusive [...]
Learn About Your Hidden Superpower & Use It For Good
Door opens. “Hi Cherry,” says Doris, smiling. Laughter bursts loudly from deep within me. “You look like a bumble bee,” are my unfiltered and inappropriate first words. Doris is no longer smiling. “Damn, damn, damn,” I think. “I hurt her feelings.” The next 3 minutes I spend back-peddling, apologizing, soothing. To use Jennifer Reed’s words [...]
How Focusing Can Keep You From Reaching Your Goals: 7 Ways to Protect Yourself
There’s a computer word game I play. The difficulty of the game increases as I advance to a higher level, requiring the intensity of my focus to also increase. My goal is to advance to the highest level I can while obtaining a wildly huge amount of points. How The Game Is Played Spread across [...]
What Your Resistance Has To Tell You or The Delightfully Imperfect You
Today my glass was half empty. I tried to fill it several times but the water of confidence evaporated before it hit my container. “OK Cherry,” I thought to myself, “use the tools you know will help you.” But I resisted. <sigh> What was my resistance telling me? What was its guidance? I paused. I [...]
5 Lies Women & Men Like to Tell Themselves
1. I can save money by doing this myself. I spent most of today exporting my old WordPress website and importing it into my new WordPress website. Should have been easy-peasy, or so I was told. Granted, it was easy when I switched from WordPress.com to WordPress.org. But this time – although I stayed within [...]
You Show Me Yours & I’ll Show You Mine
You do not have to be good. You do not have to walk on your knees For a hundred miles through the desert, repenting. You only have to let the soft animal of your body love what it loves. Tell me about your despair, yours, and I will tell you mine. Meanwhile the world goes [...]
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